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Why Does My Ex Want To Hurt Me So Much? | My Ex Enjoys My Pain

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Today’s video originates from a client of Coach Natalie who said their ex found pleasure in giving them pain. Their ex was so bitter about the breakup that she was specifically doing things to make Coach Natalie’s client miserable, to the point of spreading rumors about him and defaming his character.

We hate telling clients this in relationship coaching sessions, but sometimes we tell them to reconsider what they want. The client’s ex wanted so much vengeance on the client that seeking breakup reconciliation at that stage did not seem right and seemed unhealthy. Until your ex finds resolve with their own emotional instability, and stops seeking vengeance on your character, you’re not going to get the results that you want. You’re not going to be happy in your relationship if your ex is finding pleasure in giving you pain.

Continuing to reach out to an ex who finds pleasure in giving you pain is only going to let them know that you’re ok with being mistreated, and they are the ones in the driver’s seat in this relationship, with all the control. This is not attractive for your ex long term.

Wait until your ex no longer finds pleasure in giving you pain. Your ex is in no condition to hear about your changes, hear about your growth. They are incapable of seeing that right now. The more fuel you give them, the more opportunities you give them to hurt you.

We also feel that if your ex found pleasure in giving you pain throughout the course of your relationship, you have to ask yourself whether or not you ought to reconcile, whether saving this relationship is truly in your best interest. Dig deeply and ask yourself if you see your partner’s painful behavior in your future. Protect yourself and your self-interests. If you let your ex continue to hurt you, and show them you’re ok with it, they will continue to hurt you.


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