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Advice columnist, author, and social researcher Deborrah Cooper delves into the most pressing and controversial social issues of our time in an intelligent, analytical, no holds barred manner without concern for political correctness or individual feelings about reality. The channel is devoted to the betterment of women and girls – providing support and information to improve your relationships with others, but with yourselves.
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~ Teaching girls and women how to find their voice and say “NO!”
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Dating and relationship advice with columnist Deborrah Cooper