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Respect In A Relationship | Don’t Tolerate Disrespect!
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How do you get respect in a relationship? Further, how do you get respect in a relationship after your partner has disrespected you?
When it comes to respect in a relationship, know what you are worth. We only disrespect those who allow us to. We will treat you the way you allow yourself to be treated.
So rather than make excuses for their behavior and lack of respect in a relationship, make changes to YOUR behavior. That’s the real key. The real key is to turn this back around, “I’m not going to focus on you, I’m going to focus on me, what I believe I am worth, what I will and will not tolerate.”
We want you to do the following exercise. We want you to make a list of your dream self. We want you to ask yourself, “What is s/he like? What do they allow? Do they let themselves get mistreated? Do they let themselves be verbally abused, mentally abused, emotionally abused?” Who is that dream woman or dream man that you feel wouldn’t get pushed around? What do they like?
And then we want you to ask yourself, “How far off am I from that person? Where am I budging, and where am allowing disrespect to creep in, where this person – this ideal person – wouldn’t?”
The more we know about what we want, the more we know where to push and where to pull, the more we know what we will accept, and not accept. We will only be treated the way we allow ourselves to be treated.
So rather than focusing on, “How do I get him to stop disrespecting me?”, it’s “How do I get myself to start respecting me?”
The more you know that, the rest will fall into place. Changing these habits do not happen overnight. And Coach Natalie wants to prepare you for the fact that this is a marathon.
What we need to do is have honest and realistic expectations of change. So we would implement this brand new, idealistic “you” of what you will and will not tolerate… try a month. Try 21 days. Try 60 days, 90 days, whatever you feel comfortable with so that you give him or her a chance to change the way they treat you.
Don’t say, “I’ve had enough of it today and if you don’t fix this, the relationship is done.” Because now we’re disrespecting the relationship. We have to allow for change to happen, and relationships are big things. They don’t move at the speed of light, they move gradually.
Give your partner a chance to start changing. Give them a chance to prove to you that they can do this. And if you notice after a month that they are not changing, that we are seeing the same issues, and we are not growing, at least now you know that if this relationship cannot survive, your relationship with you is stronger than ever.
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